Tip # 45: Finding Your Courage

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Tip #45: Finding Your Courage

During times of challenge and stress, we often look to great leaders to model for us how to rise above the challenges. But I recently found this quote…which reminds us that sometimes we can best meet challenges in this way:

“Courage does not always roar. Sometimes it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I’ll try again tomorrow.’”-Mary Anne Radmacher

Find your courage and try again tomorrow.

I don't know about you, but that came in just under  17 seconds on my end!

I often wonder how many people give up on their goals just before they would have achieved them.

Why do we stop?

What extinguishes that gentle little voice nudging us to try again?

Laugh if you must, but that little voice is hope.

Hope is what courage feeds on.

And as awkward as it may be for you to hear this…hope isn’t cultivated in the brain.

It is cultivated in the heart.

I know for all of us that work with balance sheets and P&L’s that calculating what it would take to reach the opposite end of the universe can sometimes feel more realistic than making the 18 inch journey from our heads to our hearts.

I’m not saying it’s easy; I’m simply here to be the bearer of bad news:

It’s the only way.

What courageous step must you take today that will create hope and inspire you to keep moving towards your goals?

Don’t look now…but a mysterious link has appeared below.

Go on…find the courage to click on it…

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Retiring Retirement

I’m just going to say it:

‘Retirement’ is a horrible way to brand “life after work”.

Who in their right mind wants to be associated with a word like retire when it hangs around with synonyms like: resign, quit, vacate, and retreat? Even if the idea of retirement had some grandeur back in the good ol’ days as 65 became the new 50 and leaders envisioned lifestyles that were devoid of worry and full of golf…somewhere along the way it lost its luster. Most business owners I know who are nearing traditional retirement age hear that word retirement now, and it conjures up thoughts of moth balls, rocking chairs, and ‘nursing homes’.

Its origin derives from the French word ‘retirer’: To draw back. At the end of a long and successful career, maybe you want to draw back, but not into moth balls and rocking chairs! We surely can do better than retire! I am calling for a re-brand! I want everyone to strive towards that next chapter in their life that will evoke a sense of pride, respect, and accomplishment. A time to enjoy the fruits of their labor -- the hero’s welcome from a career that was well fought for and won!

There will indeed come a day when we all will stop working, but we should never stop living because we have reached ‘a particular age.’ I assure you, it should be one of the most active and exciting times of our lives!

The only thing that needs to retire here is the word itself.

How do you define retirement?

Do What You Can

“It is the greatest of all mistakes to do nothing because you can only do little – do what you can.” ―Sydney Smith

We all have dreams. We also all have lives. Lives full of interruptions, distractions, obligations, and responsibilities.

How are we expected to make time for growth when some days it’s all we can do to keep our heads above water?

When it comes to investing in professional development, it’s easy to fall into the trap of doing nothing because we don’t have time to do it all.

128 Tips to Make You a More Effective Leader is all about - practical application. So what if “a little” is all you can do? Maybe “a little” is all that you need. Sixty seconds is all it takes to make changes that matter. It’s rarely the big broad sweeping changes we make that create the most profound difference.

It’s the baby steps we take, shifting our behavior and putting sustainable habits in place that create the most profound

changes. Do what you can, a little today, a little tomorrow…and eventually you will find yourself doing things you couldn’t before.

The only way to move a mountain...is one spoonful at a time.

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